One day, Autumn walked with me along the hallway. There are one red grid and blue grids on the hallway.Autumn took big steps when her walking, and she just tread on red grids but blue grids. I asked her why she walked like this ?She said:”Georgia and I are playing a game, she can only tread on blue grids, and I can only tread on red grids.” I think they are so lovely， I asked:”But she can’t see now, you can walk as you like.” She said:”No, It’s a promise.”
Promise is a promise. Little children can also stick on their words, they behave themselves, and I am deeply moved. I remembered when I was in primary school, my classmate let me waiting for her at some place, she came back later. Then I waited her for 10 min, 20min, 40min, then she appeared after 1 hour, she was so shocked that I still wait for her. She just forgot me. She was really moved by my keeping the promise. From then on, we became very good friends, it really is.
Trust, which is a very important factor to connect the relationship with each other. But actually, we increasingly become more difficult to trust others when we turn older. We are afraid that we may get hurt, so that we are less likely to treat others with sincerity, or do anything for others without returning， we first think about ourselves.
What’s more, the base of trust is self－discipline. And the base of self-discipline is Shendu which spirit of the Subject-introverted Mind in the Confucian Philosophy. If everyone can keep the promises, behave themselves,shendu, the society will be like more self-effacing， more polite，and more civilized.